Change.
I have been sitting on my bed for the past half hour, writing sentences and erasing all of them, washing them off and creating a blank space to pen down my thoughts on.
I have been trying to write about Change. And funny enough, this half hour, even though I have sat in exactly the same position, a number of things have changed around me.
The music tracks keep changing, they don't stop and wait for me to gather my thoughts, the sounds from my house keep getting quieter, the lights outside my window one by one say goodnight.
I wish someone would have told me, the more you fight change, the more it will get to you. Well, not like Change has a personal interest in your life. But thats just how life works. Its this law of the universe, that things have to change, relations will change, there is absolutely no point crying over someone who is not the same anymore, and how someone does not let you borrow their stationery anymore.
The first ever letter I wrote to my baby brother, was about change and how if relations change it isn't anyones fault. Its all a part of growing up. This is a small part of what I had written to him and I am going to share the same with you guys :
"It is in all of us
to defy expectations
to go into the world and be brave
and to want, to need, to hunger for
adventure.
to embrace change and chance and risk
so that we may breathe
and know what it is to be
free."-anonymous
Things will be tough, more than u thought it would be,
But the key to it is, accept change :)
Accept change.
Accept change.
Im repeating it, because the biggest difficulty any individual in life faces, is to accept that things change.
People change, relationships change, and just like the weather you and i change too.
And thats the beauty of life, that everything and nothing is the same."
Things that Change has taught me :
# Don't be so stern in life. give Life a chance and cut it some slack at times.It isn't always going to change to please you.
# You will grow. Change. You will get older and maybe fatter. But relax a bit! You will change again, probably become thinner and more fabulous.
# Have patience. If things have changed for the worse right now, wait. Stand in the sidelines, because it will change back to sunshine again.
# Don't wait to lick the ice-cream, it will change into liquid form! just eat it as soon as you get your hands on it
# Cherish the people you have right now. However far away they may be from you, cherish them.
Life goes on, it changes, evolves,
and just like the weather you and i change too. :)
I dont think this is my best post, but I have written this because We more often than not, forget this simple feeling of change, and get caught up in situations, where if told "relax, you will get over it, times will change" brings a smile on people's faces, and a hope that usually sits shut until woken.
If you have any stories, that changed you, feel free to comment and share :)
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